Are fear, anxiety, stress and negative self-talk hindering the connection between you and your horse? Do you find yourself easily angered and frustrated in life? Do you feel like your emotions are controlling you? I am here to help you with just that. How? Because I have been exactly where you are.
I’ve had a temper my entire life. I thought it was just part of who I was. I was easily angered and frustrated, with a very short fuse. Because of this, I had a no-nonsense approach to working with horses: gentle but firm, demanding respect. There was no room for communication or empathy. As I reflect, I was the same way in my marriage.
After getting through postpartum depression, which manifested as even more anger, I realize is that it was just the tip of the iceberg. I still had emotions buried deep inside, and they started to surface when I wanted to work with our greenbroke colt, Ace. I realized I wasn’t the leader he needed. I was still too quick to anger as my default pushy training methods were not working. My pride, stubbornness, and fear of failure were doing us a major disservice. Soon, the dots started to connect. I lacked confidence, empathy and a sense of calmness in every area of my life.
I can’t help but giggle when I look back and see it took a horse to make me realized how much I was missing out on in life. My husband, kids, and Ace all needed the same thing.
But a confident, happier, calmer me. Healing myself was the key to everything. Letting go of past traumas, negative mindsets, forgiving, and really releasing that negative energy was the most liberating experience I have ever had! Now I am emotionally available to work with my horse. My marriage is improving daily. I am showing more empathy and patience with my daughters as they grow and develop. My own brain is finally working with me, not against me. I’m able to focus on what others need, both two or four-legged. I am becoming a whole new person, and, as a result, every aspect of my life is improving!
I want you to know that you have the power within you to take control of your dreams. I am so excited to help you to bring light into your life. I know you can do this!
You will create that connection you’ve always dreamed of having with yourself and your horse. I will share with you what I’m learning and guide you on your journey. I will help you break through those mental and emotional blocks. I will liberate you from your fears, anxiety, stress, negative self-talk — all the lies bouncing around in your body, limiting you, and holding you back.
Let’s work together.
You will be empowered. You will transform your horse. It’s time to enlighten your life!